Days Of Our Life...

Symbols and Signs

2007-11-21T00:59:00.001-08:00

Sign and symbol are two elements that connects us with the readings of astrology. Many of us are influence by the reading of the daily astrology which can be found in the local newspaper and monthly magazine. Some evean believe it and followed the prediction while others just reads for fun and some could'nt evan be bother about it.

Astrology does play a role in us. Some how we are connected to the universe and the movements of the planets, stars, moon and sun does affect our lives. It is just some time we take it as an coincidence rather than belive in it 100%. Take for instance the signs of our birth month, some how or rather the personality and characteristic of the signs does show how we feel and most of the time it suits to our situations.

I personally, put myself in a stage of awareness. I remembered the last time I told my friend that i had a boyfriend, she would asked me what is the sign of the boy. As I told her about it, she could actually tell me wheter we were compatibale or not. Surprisingly, as the years gone by, I too realize that I could be accepted by certain signs. As far as I could remember, my relations is usually with the Sagitarius, Taurus and Scorpio. Wow, the Scorpio are the most difficult ones. Their moods are so unpredictible. But still I learn that they are better as friends than lovers. However, now that I am married, a Libra is surprisingly different from others. Though, I do feel dominant sometime but it is worth it.
Than there is another time, I've worked with Gemini's. They are so could not be trusted. It does serve the purpose of having two face as a sign. They are mostly pretenders and hypocrits. This is through my experience. I dont know about yours but Gemini's, I learn a lot about life and trust with them. The valuble lesson of life, NEVER TRUST A TWO FACE. It took me down to the bottom when I realize I was played like a puppet. I survived!

Than the phase of learning about betrayal and cheated. Another valuble lesson to be learn. I had my share with Mr. Sagitarius. He was the "Perfect" guy. Tall, nice build, sportsman, know how to treat woman but there was more to it. He is also a "Player". Casanova is the name changing girls is the game. The best part, I always caught him cheating behind my back. Another lesson of life here, WOMAN TRUST YOUR INSTINCT AND INTUATION, THEY NEVER LIE. But dont get too emotional with your feelings, they often destroy you. Face the bloody truth and accept it. Don't keep yourself in denial, cause you will definitely go LOCCO. Trust me, been there, done it and felt it. Like i said its another lesson of life.

When you think about it, there are more lessons of life to be learn and everyday we go through all kinds of shit just to get through the day. As a human being, we cannot run from our own emotion and we must take responbility on our own actions. This body given to us by God is a responsibility we need to take care while we live. Never mislead your self to a stage where you lost control of your own body. Life is so precious that each and every breath we take should be appreciated and cherish that God has given to us. Live your life, and never give up on it cause if you do, you would better be in ground solemnly unbreatherble.

Mental Training...

2007-10-31T20:39:00.000-07:00

MENTAL is an adjective of or relating to the mind;
intellectual: mental powers.
Executed or performed by the mind;
existing in the mind: mental images of happy times.
Of, relating to, or affected by a disorder of the mind.
Intended for treatment of people affected with disorders of the mind.
Of or relating to telepathy or mind reading.

Slang
Emotionally upset; crazed: got mental when he saw the dent in his new car.
Offensive Slang Mentally or psychologically disturbed.

TRAINING

The process or routine of one who trains.

The state of being trained.

MENTAL TRAINING is about teaching your mind to be tough and able to control physical movements prior to your every action in any situation. It involves the control of the mind over matters that arises around you.

Such strength could only be achieve if one has gone through the situations or trained to handle current state of action. these would involve the elements of the mind, emotion, physical action and social reaction. Nevertheless, every action that you take is the result of your own action.

As a result, the mind is responsible of controlling the body. Emotion does influence the mind on making decision and action but do not fall into this. Have a rational thinking before making or doing anything, extreme thinking would result extreme result and vice versa. Although the power of the mind is the leader never forget the power of the soul and heart. Spiritual believes does influence every action in our life.

ALLERGIES...

2007-10-25T18:38:00.000-07:00

Never did knew that i was allergic to any kind of food or medication, so far certain food my cause discomfort to my tummy but that was all. 3 days ago i discovered that i was allergic to fresh tomato and penisilin. it took me 3 days to recover from the allergy. My tonsil was not happy that it swells up till they produce white dots around the throat area. On top of that i was having fever all nite long with difficulty of swallowing my own saliva. It was a teribble nite, i remembered knocking my husband few times because i was so restless.

Wow, the nite was so long. I didn't knew i'm allergic to peninsilin, till the doctor prescribed me one. It was called Profax, it is a peninsilin group. It suppose to reduce my tonsilitis but instead i develop rashes on my palm. My palm was itchy and i could felt my hands are burning. Strike 2 in a day, poor me had to stay home for 3 days and it was even hard to swallow water, then i decided to fast for 6 days. It help me to relax a bit and took away my frustaration of unable to eat anything.

My husband was a darl all the way. He took care of me and gave vanilla ice-cream to comfort my tonsils, and it does help. I love you my husband. As for now, i think i better stay away for a while from my mom-inlaw's famous "sambal belacan".

Getting Pregnant...

2007-10-18T19:05:00.000-07:00

The next step in life is to become parents. Well before that the whole process will take some serious thinking of how to get babies. For those woman whose age are less than 30yrs fertilitiy should not be an issue, of course as women age the percentage of becoming pregnant also decreases due to lack production of ovums.

Nevertheless, don't stop trying and never give up. Here are some tips to share:

1. Always be calm and avoid unecessary stress in your life.

2. Go on a holiday and have a peace of mind to rejuvenate your spirit and soul

3. Husbands should support their wives during the early stage of pregnancy especially after a good feel good time.

4. Calculate your menstrual cycle to make sure when are you most fertile

5. Last but not least, get a piece of lingerie which your hubby
couldn't stop staring at you and move on to the intimacy moments.

Well after all the planning, who knows by the next few weeks you are carrying your own flesh and blood. Enjoy the experience of motherhood and don't stop there, go on as life is more meaningful and colorful when it is merrier.

Sekapur Sireh, Seulas Pinang Muda....

2007-10-09T01:40:00.000-07:00

Kenangan terindah hanya datang sekali seumur hidup. Abadikan kenangan yang terindah itu di dalam hati. Jangan sesekali memarahi jiwa yang kacau dengan pelbagai alasan yang akan membuat kita menangis. Memang benar kata orang-orang tua,

"Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit, inikan pula suami isteri."

Disinilah permulaannya, suatu kehidupan perkongsian yang bakal menjadi sejarah kehidupan kita sebagai insan. walaupun begitu, jangan sesekali kita lupa bahawa pasangan hidup kita juga adalah seorang insan yang tidak lari dari melakukan kesilapan. Antara isu-isu yang bakal dihadapi adalah:

Rumah mak i ke mak u?

Duit u duit i, duit i duit i lah.

I tak suka.....

I suka.....

Masa sebelum kahwin u.....lepas kahwin u........

Ini adalah diantara isu-isu yang selalunya akan timbul pada 2 bulan pertama selepas berumahtangga. Isu-isu ini perlu ditangani dengan penuh kesabaran dan tidak boleh kedua-dua pasangan bersuara. Kena lah salah seorang sahaja yang bercakap dan seorang lagi mendengar dan diam. tetapi yang paling penting

"SELESAIKAN ISU-ISU SEBELUM TIDUR"

supaya tidak melarat hingga keesok hari dan bermasam muka. Elakkan bersikap ego dan sombong bodoh. Hayati perasaan pasangan anda, tidak perlu menjerit kecuali pasangan anda kurang pendengaran. Gunalah bahasa halus dan lembut supaya keadaan itu boleh terkawal.

Last but not least, jangan bersikap self-centered (mementingkan diri). Semoga hubungan berkekalan hingga ke anak cucu.

Bed of Roses...

2007-10-08T21:23:00.000-07:00

Days of our life starts in many different ways. Some start way back from the time when you are born, others share episodes of experience to realise that they are alive. So the question is, when did you realise that you are alive?

Hi there, welcome to my world...a world where LISTENING is the key, well in this case READING using the ability of the EARS, now that is something NEW! I open my arms to personal experiences and sharing of moments. Explore the world and breath the air but DON'T FORGET to STOP and SMELL the ROSES

"SELF-DETERMINATION-A unifying concept that brings meaning to the overall concept of motivation. It refers to a person's having autonomy and agency to act for herself and to make her own decisions."